Notes on Relationships
RELATIONSHIPS – 1). Jesus gave us a true pattern for dealing with conflict concerning others in our lives. (v.15-17) We must first confront them ourself. If they listen and we forgive one another, than it is done. But if not, then bring one or two others with us as impartial witnesses the next time. If that still doesn’t work, than it’s time to get the church involved. Finally, if that is unsuccessful, than we have exhausted all of the options and now it is best to stay away from them. Why? Because they are bomb full of bitterness and ready to explode, and we are right before God because we did everything He commanded to try and make it right. 2). When we bind or loosen things on this earth, it will be done in heaven. (v.18) This is specifically referring to the binding and loosening of things within our relationships with others. Our unity with others has an effect on eternity, and is a weapon of warfare in our battle against evil in the heavenly realms.
RELATIONSHIPS – 1). Peter asked Jesus how many times he needed to forgive his brother. (v.21) They had just finished talking about relationships in the previous passage, and now Peter asked a more specific question. We might assume that a quarrel had come up and Jesus was dealing with it. It wouldn’t be surprising with such volatile personalities in the group of disciples. We can almost see Peter asking this question while staring at the one disciple that had offended him. Any time we work in groups, there will come situations where feelings are hurt and disagreements develop. It’s important to work it out in a Godly way and press on. 2). Other servants saw that this wicked servant wasn’t showing grace to others. (v.31) They immediately went and told this to their master. Sometimes, we might be tempted to stay quiet about sinful things we see others involved in, but the proper thing to do is to help them by bringing it to the surface. Hidden sins destroy people quickly. 3). Jesus desires for us to stay at peace with our brothers. (v.35) What is forgiving seventy times seven? What is God really trying to say? The answer is found in verse 35. It simply says to ‘forgive your brother from your heart.’ We must make sure not to just say the words, but flesh it out in our actions as well.